Your ADHD Advice Gave Me ADHD.
Your Guru Was Wrong. The Research Wasn't.
Two readers wrote to me after my last article. Their strategies for surviving ADHD were exact opposites. In forty years as a therapist, I’ve never seen a better illustration of why one-size-fits-all advice is a disaster.
The first described a system he’d reverse-engineered for his own brain: before leaving any task, he asks himself one question — “Is this complete?” If not, he stays. He doesn’t negotiate. He doesn’t “come back to it later.” He finishes. It’s a ruthless, binary hack, and it transformed his productivity.
The second reader’s approach would give the first one a panic attack.
She commits to writing one sentence. Just one. Then she gives herself full permission to stop. Walk away. No guilt. No “just five more minutes.” Total freedom to quit.
Eight out of ten times, she doesn’t stop.
The startup energy was the problem all along — not the finishing. Lower the bar to ankle height, and the ADHD brain trips over it into a hyperfocus session it never planned on having.
Here’s why this matters: the first reader’s strategy would destroy the second. “Don’t leave until it’s done” would paralyze someone whose entire breakdown is the inability to start. She’d sit frozen in front of a blank page, except now with the added bonus of feeling like she’s failing at two things — the original task AND the system that was supposed to fix it. That’s not productivity. That’s a shame sandwich with extra guilt on the side.
And her strategy? It would turn him into the most prolific non-finisher since my cousin who “started” learning guitar, Italian, sourdough bread, woodworking, and cryptocurrency in 2020 and now owns one warped cutting board and a Duolingo owl that sends him passive-aggressive notifications. “Just write one sentence” doesn’t help a man who starts forty things and finishes none. He’d write the opening line of twelve different projects, feel the sweet dopamine rush of beginning, and have exactly zero completed anything by Thursday. He’d be Wikipedia’s first entry for “promising starts.”
Both strategies work. Both have research behind them. And they directly contradict each other.
This is the part where your productivity guru would tell you that one of them is wrong.
They’re both right. Your guru is the problem.
This article has six strategies. You don’t need all six. You need the one that matches how YOUR brain breaks down. Read until you find yours. Skip the rest. Come back later if you want. The 🤓 boxes are optional science deep dives — skip them freely, your brain has my permission.
1927: Scientist Discovers Unfinished Tasks Destroy Your Brain. 2026: Your Therapist Prescribes More of Them.
You know the advice. You’ve heard it from therapists, productivity coaches, teachers, parents, that guy on LinkedIn who posts about “morning routines” like he discovered fire and wants full credit.
Break it into small steps.
It sounds reasonable. It sounds helpful. It has been repeated so many times by so many people in so many contexts that questioning it feels like questioning gravity.
So let me question gravity.
In 1927, a psychologist named Bluma Zeigarnik discovered something inconvenient about unfinished tasks: they haunt you. The brain holds incomplete work on its mental clipboard, creating a low-grade buzz that doesn’t stop until the task is done. For most brains, this is useful. It’s the nagging feeling that makes you remember to pick up the dry cleaning.
For ADHD brains, it’s seven browser tabs playing different songs at full volume, and you can’t find the one that’s playing “Despacito.”
When you “break a task into small steps,” you haven’t reduced anything. You’ve multiplied it. You took one song you couldn’t turn off and split it into a seven-piece orchestra where every musician showed up to a different rehearsal.
Each subtask pinging your attention. Each one generating its own nagging buzz. Each one convinced it’s the priority. It’s not a to-do list. It’s a to-do list that had babies, and every baby is screaming, and they all need different things, and you’re standing in the nursery going “I think I was supposed to send an email?”
You didn’t simplify anything. You turned one problem into a custody battle.
“Break it into small steps” was designed by and for brains that can line up tasks, ignore the irrelevant ones, and work through a list in order. It assumes the filing system works. For ADHD brains, the filing system isn’t just broken. It’s on fire. And the fire keeps opening new tabs.
And nobody running the fire department seems interested in this distinction. They’re too busy telling you to break the fire into smaller, more manageable fires.
Six Strategies. All Contradictory. All Proven. Your Guru’s Head Just Exploded.
Here’s what forty years of watching people struggle has taught me: the problem was never that people with ADHD can’t complete things.
The problem was giving everyone the same solution and then blaming them when it didn’t work. Like handing out reading glasses at an eye exam and telling the guy who needs bifocals that he’s just not trying hard enough to see.
Let me say that louder for the productivity gurus in the back: you took a condition that shows up differently in virtually every person who has it, handed out ONE strategy like it was a flu shot, and then — when it didn’t work — you told people they weren’t trying hard enough. You didn’t fail them. They failed your system. Which, by the way, you tested on twelve college sophomores without ADHD and called it science.
That’s not treatment. That’s a horoscope with a co-pay.
The research — and I mean the actual studies, not the TikTok summaries — reveals something that should have been obvious from the start: different ADHD breakdowns require completely different fixes. What’s failing determines what helps. And the most popular advice actively makes several types of breakdown worse.
Here’s what the research actually supports — organized not by popularity, but by how strong the evidence is. Because if you can’t link it, you can’t claim it.
Your Brain Won’t Start the Car, So Hot-Wire It (If-Then Planning)
Meet David. Software engineer. Brilliant. Has 340 unread emails, not because he can’t answer them, but because every time he opens his inbox, his brain presents him with 340 individual decisions and then goes to lunch.
David knows he should answer emails after his morning meeting. He has known this for two years. Every morning after stand-up, he opens Twitter instead. Not because he’s lazy. Because “I should answer emails” requires his brain to decide when to start, which email to start with, and how to prioritize — and by the time it’s done negotiating with itself, it’s 11:45 and he’s reading about whether a hot dog is a sandwich.
The fix is almost offensively simple: “IF the meeting ends, THEN I open the first unread email and reply.”
That’s it. That’s the whole intervention. Decades of brain science, and the answer is a sentence that sounds like a line of code written by a robot therapist.
Here’s why it works: David’s brain doesn’t have to decide to act. The decision was already made. The cue happens, the response fires — like a reflex. The ADHD brain’s biggest completion problem isn’t laziness — it’s the gap between knowing what to do and actually starting it. If-then plans are a bridge across that gap, built before you need to cross it. The manager part of your brain doesn’t show up for work? Fine. The bridge was already there when it called in sick.
David now answers emails after meetings. He doesn’t think about it. He doesn’t decide. The stand-up ends and his hands open his inbox like a reflex arc that finally got its act together. He still doesn’t know if a hot dog is a sandwich. That problem remains unsolved.
This doesn’t work if you’re genuinely exhausted. If the tank is empty, automating the decision doesn’t help — there’s no fuel to run even an automated response. You built a beautiful bridge over a canyon and then forgot how to walk.
🤓 For the Nerds: Backed by multiple randomized controlled trials. Gawrilow and Gollwitzer (2008) tested this directly with ADHD children and found it improved response inhibition. Gollwitzer and Sheeran’s meta-analysis across 94 independent tests found a medium-to-large effect size (d = .65). Researchers call the mechanism “strategic automaticity” — the if-then format pre-loads the behavior so it bypasses the executive function bottleneck entirely.
Your Brain Thinks the Vision Board Already Happened. That’s Why You’re on the Couch. (WOOP)
Pure positive visualization — the “imagine success” technique sold by approximately every self-help author since 1985 — actually decreases motivation. Your brain experiences the reward of imagining success and decides the work is done. It’s neurological embezzlement. Your brain cashed the check before you did the job.
In other words: your vision board is making you lazier. You’re welcome.
Meet Priya. Freelance designer. Has a vision board above her desk with pictures of her dream studio, a MacBook Pro, and a client list that would make her former boss cry. Beautiful board. Very inspirational. She’s been staring at it for fourteen months while not sending a single cold email.
Her brain already feels successful. It looked at the vision board, experienced the dopamine hit of imagined achievement, and decided — neurologically, measurably, in a way you can see on a brain scan — that the work was basically done. Priya’s vision board isn’t motivating her. It’s roofie-ing her ambition.
NYU psychologist Gabriele Oettingen figured out why, and her fix is called WOOP — Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan. You imagine what you want, picture getting it, then identify the internal obstacle standing in your way and make an if-then plan for when it shows up. The self-help industry has been ignoring it for over a decade because it’s terrible for merchandise sales.
Priya’s WOOP: “I wish to land three new clients. The outcome is financial independence. The obstacle is I freeze when I have to promote myself because rejection makes me want to crawl into a dryer and set it to permanent press. The plan: IF I finish a project, THEN I send one cold email before I close my laptop.”
She landed four clients in two months. The vision board is still there. She put a Post-it note over it that says “DO THE THING.”
Here’s what should make you hopeful: WOOP works better for people with more severe ADHD. The worse your symptoms, the more it helps. The people most failed by conventional advice benefit the most from this one.
Try getting THAT on a motivational poster.
🤓 For the Nerds: Meta-analysis shows medium-to-large effect sizes (d = 0.66). Specifically tested with ADHD schoolchildren in Gawrilow et al. (2013), published in Motivation and Emotion. The “positive visualization decreases motivation” finding comes from Oettingen’s research on mental contrasting — the brain’s reward circuitry responds to the fantasy itself, reducing the dopaminergic drive needed to pursue the actual goal.
The Cure That Works Immediately, Costs Nothing, and Has Zero Investors (Guess Why You’ve Never Heard of It)
Seven massive research reviews published in 2025 alone. The evidence is a mountain that nobody’s monetized yet because you can’t patent a walk around the block.
Twenty minutes of moderate exercise — walking, jogging, cycling, anything that raises your heart rate — immediately improves your ability to focus, resist distractions, and switch gears.
Immediately. Not over weeks. Not after a program. Not after you buy the right shoes or download the right app or subscribe to the right fitness influencer who does burpees in a parking lot at 5 AM while screaming about mindset. Right now. Twenty minutes of walking.
Meet Marcus. Accountant. Tax season. Staring at a spreadsheet that might as well be written in Elvish. His brain has the processing power of a calculator that’s been dropped in a bathtub. He’s been at this desk for three hours and has accomplished typing his name at the top of one document.
Marcus goes for a twenty-minute walk. Not a run. Not CrossFit. A walk. Around the block. Like a golden retriever who’s been told he’s a good boy.
He comes back. Same spreadsheet. Same numbers. Except now his brain works. He finishes in forty-five minutes what he couldn’t start in three hours. The spreadsheet didn’t change. His brain chemistry did.
Why nobody talks about this: There’s no app. There’s no course. There’s no bestselling book called Walk Around The Block: How I Cured My ADHD With Sneakers. The research is unambiguous and the intervention is free, which means no one has a financial incentive to promote it. If exercise came in pill form, it would be the most prescribed ADHD medication on earth, and the CEO who patented it would own a yacht named Serotonin.
But you can’t build a $47/month membership around “go outside.”
This doesn’t work if your breakdown is organizational. A clearer head from exercise just means you’ll stare at your overwhelming to-do list with better cardiovascular fitness. You’re confused, but aerobically.
🤓 For the Nerds: A meta-meta-analysis in the British Journal of Sports Medicine (Singh et al., 2025) confirmed broad cognitive benefits. A 2024 review in the Journal of Clinical Medicine found physical exercise significantly improved executive functions — working memory, inhibitory control, and cognitive flexibility — in ADHD populations. The mechanism: acute aerobic exercise increases dopamine and norepinephrine availability in the prefrontal cortex, temporarily normalizing the same neurotransmitter deficits that stimulant medications target.
Quit Mid-Sentence. Start Something Else. No, This Is Actual Science. (Task Interleaving)
What if I told you the secret to finishing things is to never finish anything?
Stay with me.
Meet Alina. High school English teacher. Thirty-seven essays to grade, a lesson plan due Monday, and a graduate school application she’s been “working on” since September. She used to sit down and force herself to grade all thirty-seven essays in one sitting. By essay twelve, she was writing comments like “Good.” By essay twenty, she was writing “See me.” By essay thirty, she was questioning every decision that led to her becoming a teacher, including the original decision to learn to read.
Now she grades five essays, switches to the lesson plan for twenty minutes, drafts one paragraph of her grad school application, then goes back to essays. She finishes everything by Sunday night. She still questions her career choices, but from a place of completion rather than despair.
Instead of doing Task A until completion, then Task B, you rotate: A-B-C-A-B-C. This is what the second reader described without knowing there was a name for it. Researchers spent years and grant money discovering what Alina and the second reader figured out by accident.
The ADHD brain runs on novelty. Same task for too long = boredom = paralysis. It’s not a design flaw. It’s a feature that nobody gave you the manual for.
Switching tasks provides a hit of freshness that reignites engagement. And here’s the beautiful part: the Zeigarnik Effect — the same haunting-unfinished-task buzz that makes “break it into small steps” a disaster — actually helps with interleaving. The unfinished tasks create tension that pulls you back to them. The haunting becomes useful. The monster under the bed starts doing your homework.
The contradiction that proves everything: One reader says “don’t leave until it’s done.” The other says “rotate between things.” Two opposite strategies. Both backed by evidence. Both correct for different people.
If your productivity guru can’t hold two contradictory truths at the same time, get a guru who passed philosophy.
🤓 For the Nerds: Originally from motor learning science (Rohrer & Taylor, 2007; Bjork & Bjork on “desirable difficulties”). The interest-based nervous system model of ADHD (Dodson, 2005) suggests that for ADHD brains, the dopaminergic benefit of novelty-seeking may offset the executive function cost of switching. The Zeigarnik Effect’s role here is paradoxical — the same incomplete-task tension that overloads working memory when tasks are broken into steps can serve as a motivational pull when interleaved voluntarily.
Your Brain Didn’t Forget the Laundry. Your Brain Doesn’t Know Laundry Exists. (Externalization)
Russell Barkley — arguably the most cited ADHD researcher alive — has been saying the same thing for thirty years: “The problem with ADHD is not knowing what to do, but doing what you know.” The self-help industry has been ignoring him for thirty years because there’s no way to sell that as a subscription.
His core recommendation: stop relying on your brain to remember things. Make everything visible. Visual timers. Physical checklists you can cross off. Leaving materials in view. Environmental cues that do the remembering for you.
The ADHD brain doesn’t have a completion problem — it has a visibility problem. If the task isn’t in front of you, it doesn’t exist. Out of sight isn’t just out of mind. It’s out of reality. Your brain didn’t forget to do the laundry. Your brain genuinely does not know the laundry exists right now. It’s not in the room, so as far as the planning part of your brain is concerned, laundry is a concept from a past life that has nothing to do with the YouTube video you’re watching about how bridges are built.
The first reader figured this out instinctively with his verbal self-check (”Is this complete?”). He made the invisible visible — he forced his brain to confront the incompleteness it was perfectly happy ignoring. He reverse-engineered his own blind spot using nothing but a question and stubbornness. Somewhere, a neuroscientist is weeping into a grant application because a guy with no formal training just replicated thirty years of their research in a Post-it note.
This works for almost everyone with ADHD, in combination with other strategies. It’s the foundation layer. It’s the operating system. The other strategies are the apps. Without this one, everything else crashes on startup.
The Laziest-Sounding Strategy That Works Better Than Most Therapy (Activation Energy Reduction)
The second reader’s method, formalized: commit to the smallest possible unit of the task. One sentence. One dish. Open the document and type a single word. Give yourself unconditional permission to stop after that. Full amnesty. No guilt. No “just five more minutes.” Done means done.
Meet Kenji. PhD student. Dissertation chapter due in three weeks. He has opened the document sixty-one times. He has typed and deleted the same opening sentence forty-three times. He has reorganized his desk, cleaned his apartment, called his mother, learned to make focaccia, and watched a ninety-minute YouTube essay about the history of velcro. He has done everything except write.
Kenji’s new rule: open the document. Type one sentence. Any sentence. Permission to close the laptop immediately after.
Day one: he types one sentence. Closes laptop. Feels nothing. Goes to bed confused.
Day two: types one sentence. Then another. Then another. Closes laptop at sentence four. Feels suspicious.
Day three: types one sentence. Looks up three hours later. Has written 2,100 words. Calls his advisor in a state of genuine shock.
By her own count, she keeps going about eight out of ten times. Not because she’s disciplined. Because once the ADHD brain is moving, stopping takes more effort than continuing. She’s not using willpower. She’s using physics.
It’s the therapeutic equivalent of “just put on your shoes and see what happens.” And it works 80% of the time, which is a better success rate than most things your therapist has suggested. Including, I suspect, some things I’ve suggested.
The Reason You Can’t Stop Playing Candy Crush Is the Same Reason You Can’t Start Your Taxes. Use That. (Gamification)
The ADHD brain’s reward system responds intensely to unpredictable rewards. Vegas figured this out decades ago. The wellness industry is still catching up.
Making task completion feel like a game — streak counting, point systems, apps like Habitica or Forest — turns “did I do the thing” into “what reward did I get for doing the thing, and I can’t predict what it’ll be.”
The ADHD brain doesn’t lack motivation — it lacks consistent motivation for predictable rewards. “You’ll feel accomplished” isn’t motivating when your brain chemistry literally cannot generate the feeling of future accomplishment. That’s like telling a colorblind person they’ll love the painting once they really look at it. The hardware doesn’t support the experience you’re describing.
But “you might level up, get a badge, or unlock something unexpected”? Now you’re speaking the brain’s native language.
Streak counting adds another trick — breaking the streak feels worse than earning it felt good. Your brain doesn’t care about gaining Day 47. It deeply cares about not losing it. Forty-seven days of doing the thing, and the only reason you’re doing Day 48 is the sickening thought of that counter resetting to zero. Your brain will move mountains to avoid that loss. It won’t lift a finger to gain an equivalent reward.
Whatever works. Dignity is optional. Results are not.
🤓 For the Nerds: The theoretical basis is Skinner’s variable reinforcement schedules — unpredictable reward timing produces the highest response rates and greatest resistance to extinction. The ADHD-specific application leverages the hyperdopaminergic response to novelty: the mesolimbic dopamine pathway shows reduced baseline activation but heightened phasic response to unexpected rewards. Loss aversion (Kahneman & Tversky, 1979) explains the streak effect — losses are weighted roughly 2x more heavily than equivalent gains.
The Part Where I Get Angry About Incense and Helsinki
I’d be a bad therapist and a worse journalist if I didn’t mention the two interventions currently generating the most revenue and the least appropriate confidence.
Meditation: The B-Minus Student Who Keeps Getting Invited to Graduation
The evidence is real but modest. The largest independently funded trial — government-funded, not meditation-industry-funded — found small-to-moderate improvements in ADHD symptoms that held at six months. That’s legitimate. That’s a B-minus on a generous curve.
Here’s where it gets uncomfortable: a 2025 research review found that mindfulness training for ADHD didn’t significantly improve mindfulness skills. Read that again. The training named after the skill it’s supposed to build didn’t build that skill.
If a weight loss program didn’t cause weight loss but participants “reported feeling better about their bodies,” we’d call it a support group with a branding problem.
The effects that ARE real may come from the structure — regular meetings, learning about how your brain works, group support — rather than the meditation itself. Nobody’s tested that properly because the meditation industry doesn’t want to discover that the active ingredient is “showing up somewhere consistently and learning about your brain,” which is just... therapy. Without the incense.
And the most-cited founding study? Zylowska et al. (2008). No comparison group. Twenty-four adults. The researcher co-founded the UCLA Mindful Awareness Research Center, developed the specific program being studied, and wrote a book selling that program. She studied her own product, found it worked, and published the results. If a pharmaceutical company did this, congressional hearings would be scheduled by lunch. If a car company did it, there’d be a Netflix documentary and a class-action lawsuit. But it’s meditation, so we just nod and buy the book.
🤓 For the Nerds: Janssen et al. (2019) in Psychological Medicine found d = 0.41, funded by ZonMW — no meditation-industry conflicts. Zylowska et al. (2008) was an open trial with no control group (n = 24). Zylowska co-founded UCLA MARC and authored The Mindfulness Prescription for Adult ADHD. The 2025 meta-analytic finding: symptom reduction occurs, but increases on validated mindfulness measures (FFMQ, MAAS) were not statistically significant.
Hypnotherapy: The Study That’s Technically a Dinner Party
The entire controlled evidence base for hypnotherapy and ADHD is one research team in Helsinki studying 17 people. Hypnotherapy performed as well as talk therapy short-term and showed better outcomes at six months — but the researchers themselves think the relationship with the therapist, not the hypnosis, might be the active ingredient.
Seventeen participants isn’t a clinical trial. It’s a dinner party that got out of hand and accidentally published a paper.
There IS an interesting overlap between the brain regions involved in hypnosis and ADHD — but “interesting overlap” is not “evidence it works.” Sneezing and orgasms involve overlapping brain regions too. Nobody’s prescribing one for the other. Yet. Give TikTok time.
🤓 For the Nerds: Hiltunen et al. (2014) in Contemporary Hypnosis and Integrative Therapy — 17 participants, single team (Helsinki). Brain-circuitry overlap involves the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC) and dorsolateral prefrontal cortex (DLPFC). Researchers attributed sustained improvement to therapeutic alliance rather than hypnotic induction.
The Question Nobody Asked Because the Answer Doesn’t Fit on a Mug
You don’t need a better app, a stricter routine, or a more expensive planner with inspirational quotes on every page that you’ll use for eleven days and then lose under your bed next to the last planner and the planner before that and the bullet journal your sister gave you for Christmas that you felt guilty about for six months.
You need someone to ask you: What is actually breaking down?
Is the problem starting? Lower the bar. (Ask Kenji.)
Is the problem deciding? Remove the decision. (Ask David.)
Is the problem caring about something that isn’t on fire? Manufacture the urgency. (Ask Priya.)
Is the problem boredom? Feed the novelty system instead of starving it. (Ask Alina.)
Is the problem exhaustion? Go for a walk. (Ask Marcus.) Twenty minutes. Free. Wildly effective. Absolutely zero venture capital behind it.
Is the problem remembering the task exists? Nail it to the wall.
Is the problem all of these things at different times depending on the day, the task, the amount of sleep you got, and whether Mercury is in retrograde?
Yeah. Welcome to ADHD. The condition where the answer is “it depends,” the internet is full of people who are absolutely certain it doesn’t, and every one of them has a course for $297 and a ring light.
If this describes someone you know — send it to them before someone else tells them to try a planner.
The Diagnosis
For forty years, the ADHD intervention landscape has operated on a fundamental error: it assumes ADHD is one thing requiring one solution. One pill. One app. One strategy. One TikTok with good lighting and a caption that reads “ADHD hack that changed my life 🧠✨” posted by someone who got diagnosed six weeks ago and now has a highlight reel called “brain tips.”
The research says otherwise. If-then planning works by pre-loading decisions. WOOP works by manufacturing urgency. Exercise works by refueling the hardware. Interleaving works by feeding novelty. Externalization works by making the invisible visible. Activation energy reduction works by making starting almost effortless.
Six strategies. Six completely different reasons they work. All evidence-based. Several directly contradicting each other. And that’s just the ones with decent research behind them — not the ones with a podcast, a merch line, and a supplement that “supports focus” the way a paper umbrella supports you in a hurricane.
The person who tells you there’s one answer is selling something. And they’re selling it with the confidence of someone who has never watched a client try their advice, fail, blame themselves, try harder, fail again, and then stop showing up entirely because they’ve concluded that the problem is them.
It’s not them. It was never them.
It was giving everyone the same map to different cities and then acting surprised when they got lost.
The person who tells you to figure out what’s actually breaking down — and match the fix to the breakdown — is giving you something harder, slower, and more uncomfortable than a list.
The truth.
Nobody can do that part for you. Not your therapist. Not your coach. Not the algorithm that keeps surfacing oversimplified advice with good lighting, confident delivery, and 2.3 million followers who’ve never once been told that the strategy might not work for them specifically.
But somewhere between David’s automated inbox, Priya’s Post-it note, Marcus’s walk around the block, Alina’s five-essay rotation, and Kenji’s one terrifying sentence — there’s a version of this that works for your specific brain, on this specific day, for this specific task.
Finding it is the work. Nobody said the work would be simple.
They said to break it into small steps.
If this describes someone you know — send it to them before someone else tells them to try a planner.
Ross Grossman is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with 40 years of clinical experience. He writes THE DIAGNOSIS, a darkly humorous examination of psychology, culture, and why we keep getting it wrong. He has ADHD. Obviously.
This article is educational content, not therapy. If you’re struggling with ADHD, please consult a mental health professional who will hopefully ask you what’s actually breaking down before handing you a list.
If this made you reconsider advice you’ve been given — or gave you language for something you’ve been experiencing — THE DIAGNOSIS publishes twice weekly. Research translated, nonsense debunked, the stuff your therapist thinks but won’t say out loud.
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"you took a condition that shows up differently in virtually every person who has it, handed out ONE strategy like it was a flu shot, and then — when it didn’t work — you told people they weren’t trying hard enough. You didn’t fail them. They failed your system." YES. This "one size fits all, and when it doesn't it's your fault" strategy fails for many types of disorders. I just published about this in my post, "FND vs. Broken Legs."
"There's no bestselling book called Walk Around The Block: How I Cured My ADHD With Sneakers."
Maybe this is a book waiting to be written. Marie Kondo got rich telling people to fold their socks differently... so you never know. (No shade to Marie or her devotees—I'm just saying the bar for life-changing advice is surprisingly low.)